Remembrance is designed as a pilgrimage
that becomes a way of life.

The ceremonial space you will enter in this experience clears the path
for you to live a more vibrant
and spiritually connected life.

The beautifully simple rituals that you will practice each day
can be carried into your routines at home.

Many who answer this call are creatives, healers, guides, or community leaders. You’ve attended workshops, trainings, retreats; you know a lot, and now you crave embodiment and genuine integration. You value beauty, meaningful ritual, sisterhood, and sovereignty. You’re drawn to heritage places rich with story and infused with the ancient vibrations of sacred rituals and prayers. You appreciate clear structure with room to breathe, honest and warm leadership, and the company of other devoted women on a spiritual path.

More truths of the sacred feminine are continually unfolding and being uncovered at this time, giving permission and encouraging your truth to unfold and come to light.

Having a greater understanding of who Mary Magdalene was and her relevance and importance now for women to feel seen, heard, expressed, valued, and powerful. Remembering her true story helps you to remember your true self and the gifts you have to share.  

If you’re nodding along, you’ll likely feel right at home in Remembrance.

This is an intimate, heart-centered, and profound experience. This feels like a coming home, a call to nourish and revive your heart, remember what your true values are, broaden your trust in your dreams coming into existence, carry with you the messages of the ancients that are needed today, and brighten your path forward!

WHY REMEMBRANCE?

In a world full of retreats and pilgrimages, Remembrance stands apart. We have lovingly crafted and curated this experience to ensure that what you receive is what is needed at this moment and will continue to support you in your life in ways that truly lasts.

HERE'S HOW REMEMBRANCE IS UNIQUE:

The Remembrance Way: A simple daily practice framework you’ll learn during the pilgrimage, so clear and gentle that you can keep it up when you return home. This isn’t just a trip; it’s training in a regenerative rhythm of prayer, presence, and integration that fits into real life. This includes movement, food, meditation, ritual, rest, and other supports for an enlivened life.

The Vow of Remembrance: At the heart of our journey lies a signature consecration ritual. In a magical power spot near the end of the retreat, you will be guided to articulate a personal Vow of Remembrance; a sacred commitment to how you will live what you’ve experienced. This isn’t a theoretical promise; it’s a felt moment of clarity that seals your “yes” in your bones, so you leave inspired, reclaimed and committed to your path. This is a Vow to yourself, all life, and the life-force energy of Source itself.

A Sacred Feminine Arc: Rather than focusing on a single icon or doctrine, we honor a unified sacred feminine lineage. Over these 11 days, you’ll encounter Mary Magdalene, the Black Madonna, Mother Mary, and other Sacred Feminine Deities weaving one respectful, coherent story of love and devotion.

All of this unfolds in a warm, inclusive container of safety, consent, and care. The group is kept small (around 12-15 women), where connection and compassion are pillars of our space together. The pace is gentle and mindful; we build in plenty of breathing room. Trauma-aware, consent-led facilitation means you will never be pressured to participate in anything without your full and enthusiastic agreement. In short: we prioritize your experience and sovereignty. Our goal is for you to feel safe, seen, and respected at every moment of the journey.

In short, Remembrance Pilgrimage is designed
so that  your glow doesn’t fade. 

Months later, you might find yourself on a Tuesday morning lighting a candle or saying a quiet prayer, noticing how much steadier and more connected you feel. How much more you trust your role as a co-creator of your beautiful life. How much more vibrant you are from the inside out and can more easily follow a path of faith and trust. These are the kinds of outcomes we’re devoted to creating with you.

Experience Overview

Our 11-day pilgrimage unfolds across the enchanting landscapes of Southern France, in regions rich with legend and sacred feminine history. We begin by gathering in Marseille, on the Mediterranean coast, and then trace a path through ancient Provence into the mystical Occitanie region.

Along the way, we immerse ourselves in story-rich holy places that carry a piece of the Remembrance journey.  These places are where Mary Magdalene’s memory lives on and where Black Madonna shrines have endured, healed, and inspired for centuries.

We move between sea-swept chapels, quiet cave sanctuaries, and hilltop villages where the sacred feminine has been honored for centuries. Along the way, we weave ritual and story, embodiment and stillness while opening you to the invitation of bringing in what new vibrancy is being called in for yourself and the world.

To protect site privacy and keep our pace responsive to the land, weather, and local festivals, we share the detailed day-by-day itinerary with confirmed guests in your Welcome Packet after you reserve your place. Questions may be asked about this in your call. Expect depth without rush, beauty without crowds, and a rhythm that allows your entire being to integrate as we go.

Importantly, this itinerary is rich with intention and meaning. We believe pilgrimage is a posture, not a checklist. You will notice a gentle rhythm to our days (detailed below), ensuring that you have time to truly receive the energy of each place and moment. Yes, you will see awe-inspiring sites and touch relics of deep heritage but equally, you will have quiet afternoons to journal in a wildflower meadow, or sip tea at a café and integrate in solitude, or take a nap and simply be. The journey is carefully balanced between outward excursions and inward absorption so that your own experience can unfold organically without feeling like a tourist on a timetable.

Throughout the pilgrimage, your guides will share stories and teachings that bring each location to life: the legends of Mary Magdalene in France, the hidden meanings of the Black Madonna icons, the intertwined tales of the sacred feminine across time. But more than talk, we emphasize practice. You’ll partake in daily rituals, from simple morning meditations to creative evening ceremonies, that help you embody what you’re learning. By walking these lands and engaging with them through ceremony, you become part of the continuing story. Our hope is that Southern France herself becomes a teacher and muse for you, and that you forge a deeply personal connection to the sacred feminine lineage that has been present on these lands for centuries and that we honor greatly today.

(Please note: This flow may vary on certain days – for instance, one day we may rise extra early for a special sunrise water ceremony in a mountain stream, and another day we might be out later enjoying an evening in a vibrant town square. But even on fuller days, we maintain a mindful pace, ensuring you have support and balance.)

Throughout each day, presence is the priority.

We intentionally practice more being than doing. You won’t be inundated with lectures or busy-work. Instead, you’ll find yourself breathing deeply, listening to your own inner voice, and engaging all your senses; whether it’s the taste of fresh bread, the sight of a rose-strewn altar, or the feeling of cool stone beneath your palm in a sacred cave.

This daily rhythm and continuance of sacred feminine lineage is something you can take home, adapting morning prayers or evening reflections into your regular life. It’s a template for living in Remembrance.

Getting There & Getting Around

We aim to make your travel as smooth as possible.

Your journey begins in Marseille, France. We ask that you arrive at Marseille Provence Airport (MRS) by noon on June 1, 2026 where you will be greeted by the Remembrance team. The retreat has been purposefully designed that you can come in the weekend before (and stay the weekend after) to enjoy other parts of France such as the Riviera, Paris, or other spots that call you and peek your fancy. We will provide some suggested hotels and connections we have made in your Welcome Package.

From the airport, we will all travel together in our comfortable private vans to our first retreat site before heading to our accommodations. If you’ve had a long flight, don’t worry, we will welcome you with a picnic and a gentle pace.

Throughout the pilgrimage, we have private transportation for our group. The vans are air-conditioned and spacious enough for everyone and luggage. Drives between sites range from 30 minutes to 2 hours (at the most) on a given day, and we’ll break up longer drives with stops (like a cafe pause, picnic, or scenic viewpoint).

We intentionally keep travel days unhurried; this is not a bus tour with endless hours on the road. It’s a meandering pilgrimage where the journey is as enjoyable as the destination. You’ll get to soak in the landscape, from the rolling vineyards to the rugged foothills, without the stress of navigation. We try our best to stagger travel days with non-travel days so there isn't too much go-go-go.

On June 11, the last day, we will return you to Marseille by midday. We’ll coordinate with everyone’s onward travel plans to ensure you catch flights or trains comfortably. If you wish to extend your stay in France, we’re happy to provide guidance for that as well.

Pace, Physicality & Accessibility

While we do visit multiple sites, we have designed the schedule to avoid exhaustion. We typically have one outing per day and ample downtime. Of course, pilgrimage by nature involves some walking and time on your feet: you might be strolling cobblestone streets, climbing a small hill to a chapel, or walking in a forest path.

The physical intensity is generally low to moderate. We won’t be undertaking any very strenuous hikes; the most physically demanding activity might be a walk up to a cave or a tower with stairs, but we take it slow and provide alternatives if needed (for example, if you can’t make a steep climb, we’ll ensure you still have a meaningful experience nearby). If you can comfortably walk for 20-30 minutes at a stretch and handle a few stairs, you should be absolutely fine.

That said, your well-being is our priority. We are very flexible; if anyone needs a break or feels unwell, we adjust plans as necessary. We encourage listening to your body, there’s no push to “keep up.” If you have specific mobility concerns, please reach out so we can discuss options and plan accordingly. We can arrange alternatives such as shorter walks, additional rest time, vehicle access where possible, or a companion staying back with you, so you’re supported every step of the way.

Finally, note that we embrace a bit of digital detox to enhance presence. While you will have access to your phone/internet at our lodgings (and we won’t confiscate anything!), we will invite the group to minimize phone use during group activities and at sacred sites. We’ll set some loving guidelines around this, so that we can really unplug from daily distractions and drop into the here and now. (Emergency contact info will be provided to your loved ones so they can reach our staff if needed. You won’t be cut off, just gently tuning out of the digital noise for a while.)

If any logistical detail is causing you anxiety, big or small, please know you can ask us questions anytime. We are here to help make this journey easeful for you, from the moment you consider joining until you’re safely back home.

Meet Your Guides

You will be guided by two passionate, heart-centered facilitators who together create a balanced and supportive container for your journey. They have been friends and supporters of each other's dreams for almost a decade, followers of Mary Magdalene together for over a handful of years, and soul sisters for eons of time.

Vanessa Tavernetti

Vanessa is the visionary behind Remembrance, born of her deep devotion to the sacred feminine and decades of leading women’s circles. For 25 years she has been helping people illuminate their purpose through connecting more deeply with the Earth and Spirit. Vanessa supports women in feeling safe say things they have never said before, take bold actions to make their lives beautiful, and live a life full of purpose and potentiality.

As a seasoned spiritual mentor with a trauma-informed background, she has a gift for making everyone feel safe and seen. Through her love and lived commitment to the Earth's regeneration through connection, Vanessa is dedicated to the dissolvement of the illusion of separatism and fear. Vanessa has cultivated a breadth of deep wisdom from immersing in earth-based and intuitive spiritual practices and skills. This is where her path resonated intersected with Mary Magdalene's.  

Vanessa has walked the Magdalene landscape for years, including extensive study and time in Southern France over the past 30 years. Her reverence for land and lineage is contagious. She brings the sites alive with story, connecting history and mystery to the truth moving in your own life. She guides participants to trust their own intuitive sensing to connect more deeply with the sites, the energies of the Black Madonna's, and the other than human world at each location. She holds a non-judgmental, consent-led space where you can unfold at your own pace. She carries the innocence that draws fairies in, coupled with a spiritual maturity and fiery fierceness that can help clear what is no longer needed for your life.  With Vanessa at the helm, you can relax into knowing the details are handled and you are genuinely meticulously cared for.

During free afternoons of the retreat, Vanessa offers one-on-one healing Ritual Baths and Guidance Sessions. Vanessa is an ecopsychologist, certified Ayurvedic Nutritionist and Aromatherapist, Permaculture certified, Western herbalist. She creates sacred oils and plant essences to help you release and renew. Women love her grounded, ancient informed, contemporary approach. She will laugh with you over a mug of tea one minute and hold sacred space for your tears the next.

For the past decade she and her husband, Rhett, have co-created Earth Magic Academy where they have helped illuminate thousands purposes through helping them connect more deeply with the Earth and Spirit. She has held a weekly intuitive community class for 6 years, while graduating over 100 people from their intuitive program. Dozens of women have traveled with Vanessa through her year-long women's program, and many have been personal guided through her 1:1 sessions or readings.

REALLY MY GIFT

From childhood, Vanessa was a sensitive soul with a strong connection to Spirit, often sensing what was unspoken. She grew up among Illinois corn and soy fields and witnessed the human cost of pesticide-laden water and land. She felt called to protect the more-than-human world. She has always had a profound relationship with Nature. People often tell her that simply being in her presence helps them feel more grounded. In her teens, she tried to outrun her gifts and turned to alcohol and drugs to fill the void, until life called her back.

She earned a degree in Sustainable Development before sustainability was a buzzword. She worked to support Midwestern farmers in transitioning to organic practices, work that met resistance at the time. At 23, a devastating car wreck and traumatic brain injury put her in a coma for a week. When she woke against all odds, she received a clear inner instruction to help people reconnect to Earth and Spirit. She said yes. Since then, she has devoted her life to guiding women into embodied remembrance through story, ritual, movement, and the living intelligence of the land.

Karen Gruber

Karen helps women live their devotion in real life. She bridges mystical insight with practical next steps so what you receive in France becomes a simple rhythm you can keep at home. Her facilitation is warm, clear, and consent led. Women feel safe with Karen because she listens deeply and reflects truth without judgment.

For most of her adult life, Karen has walked with Mary Magdalene as a spirit guide. That relationship infuses her work with reverence for lineage, the living presence of the Divine Feminine, and the holiness of ordinary moments. Through years of prayer, study, and circle work, she carries Magdalene’s stories in a way that is both grounded and intimate. Sitting with Karen feels like being welcomed to a quiet table where the sacred is near and your own wisdom has room to speak.

On this pilgrimage, Karen is your translator between sacred encounter and everyday living. She takes what moved you in a chapel or in circle and helps you anchor it in real mornings, real relationships, and real work. Think follow-through on daily practices, boundaries that feel gentle and firm, choices that match your values, and a pace that honors your nervous system. You leave with a rhythm you can keep and clarity in your calling that shows up on the daily, not only in France.

Karen brings years of mentoring spiritual entrepreneurs, healers, and creators. She understands calendars and clients, family and fatigue, inspiration and follow through. She has a knack for gentle guidance, knowing when to ask a probing question, when to offer a comforting presence, and when to infuse a moment with light laughter. Her work centers sovereignty. You choose what is right for your body and season. She designs spacious structure with breathing room and offers loving accountability that feels like support, not pressure. Her guidance is practical and tender so you can lead from your integrated self in both life and work.

Her gift is making the sacred simple. With Karen beside you, devotion stops being an idea and becomes how you move through a day. You return home remembering who you are, choosing from center, and living your divine expression in ordinary life.

Together, Karen and Vanessa form a dynamic duo devoted to your journey. They are soul sisters and have an intuitive rapport that makes the whole experience seamless. You will feel their combined presence and love as a balanced dance of masculine containment and feminine flow: everything organized and safe, yet always flowing with room for magic. They are both deeply compassionate, good-humored, and faithful about you receiving what you came for. Those who have journeyed with us before speak of a bond that lasts; we hold Remembrance with the same heart.

(Curious to know more about Karen or Vanessa’s backgrounds and qualifications? Feel free to schedule a call; they’d love to personally connect and share more of their story and why this matters so much to each of them with you.)

Bonuses

When you join Remembrance Pilgrimage, you receive a few special bonuses that enrich your experience before and during the retreat:

Monthly Pre-Retreat Circles (Virtual):

Starting in January and leading up to June, we host a monthly online gathering for all confirmed pilgrims. (Think of these as cozy fireside chats via Zoom.) In these one-hour circles, we’ll begin to cultivate our sisterhood and prepare our hearts.

Each call will have a theme relevant to the journey; for example, one month we might explore “Living Your Divine Connection” with a short teaching or meditation from Karen, another month Vanessa might guide a simple creative preparation ritual you can do at home, and in every call there’s space for sharing intentions and excitement (or nervousness!).

These preparatory circles help you arrive in France already connected and grounded. By retreat time, you won’t be showing up as strangers; you’ll feel like a circle of sisters who have been journeying inwardly together and becoming familiar with the content of what we will explore.

Attendance is optional but highly encouraged (recordings are provided too). Gathering beforehand helps ease pre-travel jitters and deepen your commitment to yourself, as well as, become familiar with the community of sacred feminine pilgrims.

(Bonus value: consider it several bonus mini-retreats before the big trip!)

Remembrance Welcome Package:

Who doesn’t love good mail? Upon registering, you will receive a beautiful welcome package delivered to your doorstep. Inside, you’ll find a curated collection of goodies to support and symbolize your journey. We also include practical items like a packing checklist and a booklet about the sacred sites we’ll visit.

This welcome box is our way of saying hello and welcome in a tangible form, and it’s meant to stir your anticipation and begin the ritual of Remembrance from the moment you open it. Your pilgrimage truly begins at home.

Together, these bonuses ensure that Remembrance is not just an 11-day experience, but a journey you ease into and out of with care and continuity.

We are with you from the minute you say yes, to well after you return home, wrapping you in support.

Pricing + Payment

We offer two retreat package options to suit your preference for accommodation. Transparent pricing – no hidden fees. Here are the options:

Shared Room – $7,995 USD:

Enjoy the full pilgrimage experience in a shared room. You will have your own comfortable bed, and we pair you thoughtfully based on preferences and sleep rhythms. Room configurations vary by property; most are twin shares, and at times a larger room may be shared by a small sister pod in our villa settings. All shared options include everything in “What’s Included” and many women cherish the quiet companionship that unfolds in these rooms.

Private Room – $11,995 USD:

Treat yourself to a private sanctuary each night. You’ll have your own room (with either a double/queen bed or two twins to yourself) throughout the retreat.

Only 2 private rooms are available at both venues, so if privacy is a priority, please reserve early. The Private Room package includes all the same meals, activities, and goodies; the higher rate reflects the single occupancy accommodation.

Many women choose this option if they know they need alone time to recharge deeply; you’ll have the best of both worlds, group connection and a personal oasis.

Secure Your Spot:

A $1,999 USD deposit is required to secure your place on the Remembrance Pilgrimage. This deposit is non-refundable (see FAQ on cancellation policy), and it counts toward your total retreat price. The remaining balance can be paid in one lump sum or on a payment plan. Our standard payment plan is 4 monthly installments after the deposit, with the full balance due by April 1, 2026.

For example, if you choose the Shared Room: $1,999 down, then four payments of roughly $1,249 each between December 2025 and April 2026 (exact schedule can be tailored based on your signup date). We do not charge any interest or fees for using the payment plan, it’s there to support you.

We believe in honoring your commitment with clear, fair policies. If your heart is saying a full-bodied “Yes!”, you may opt to Reserve your spot now with the $1,999 deposit; this guarantees your place immediately. If you prefer to talk to us first to ensure it’s a mutual fit, you can absolutely do that (see How to Join below). Either way, once your deposit is received and you’re accepted into the retreat, you’ll get a confirmation email with a receipt, followed shortly by your welcome package and access to the bonuses.

Refund Policy:

We understand that unexpected things happen in life. Our deposit is non-refundable because it represents your commitment and enables us to secure venues and plans. That said, we do offer partial refunds on additional payments if you need to cancel by a certain date (to be detailed in our terms and agreement)-i think we changed this when we chatted. We also allow transfers: if an emergency arises and you cannot attend, you may transfer your spot to another qualified woman (with our approval) up until a month before the trip. We aim to be as compassionate as possible within the boundaries of what we can financially and logistically accommodate. We will provide the full written cancellation policy for you to review before you make your first payment, so you can make an informed decision.

Transparent and No Pressure:

You’ll notice we’re not into manipulative sales tactics. Our pricing is transparent; there are no surprise add-ons. We truly want each woman who comes to feel it’s worth every bit of time, energy, and money she invests and we’re confident it will be. If you have concerns about payments, reach out we might be able to work something out (like a customized payment schedule). Your commitment matters more to us than the form of payment.

Ready to step in?

Begin with a complimentary 20-minute Wayfinding Call.

This conversation is required for all participants. We will listen, answer your questions, and make sure the circle, pace, and timing are a true fit. If it is a clear yes for everyone, we will send your private deposit link ($1,999) to secure your spot.

How to Join

We are honored you are considering this journey. Because the circle is small and intimate, we begin with a brief conversation to be sure the timing, pace, and container are right for you.

1) Book a 20-minute Wayfinding Call (required).
This gentle conversation is the first step for everyone. We listen, answer your questions, share key details, and make sure the retreat is a true fit. There is no selling on this call. Your yes is honored, and your no is honored.

2) Mutual yes and deposit.
If it is clear for all of us, we will send your private deposit link for $1,999 to secure your place. The deposit is applied to your tuition and is non-refundable. A simple payment plan is available after the deposit with the balance due by April 1, 2026. Private and semi-private rooms are limited (4); if you are considering one, tell us on the call so we can advise on availability.

3) Welcome and preparation.
Once your deposit is received, your spot is confirmed. You will receive a welcome email, your agreement to sign, dates for our pre-retreat circles, travel guidance, and details on your mailed welcome package. From there, we stay close so you feel supported all the way to France.

Book a 20-minute Wayfinding Call

Your Yes, Your Way: Whether you choose to apply first, book a call, or jump right in with a deposit, we honor your process. If at any point you want to talk to a human, just reach out, we’re here to help. There’s a support email at the end of this page where you can send any questions or requests.

Lastly, a gentle reminder, space is limited. We truly wish we could accommodate everyone who feels called, but to keep the circle intimate, we cap it between 12 - 15 women. If your heart knows this pilgrimage is for you, we encourage you to take that first step soon. We would be so thrilled to welcome you to Remembrance 2026!

FAQs

Final Invitation

Dear one, if you’ve read this far, something in your heart is already lighting your Remembrance. This pilgrimage is not a typical getaway; it’s a return to what is real and sacred in you. It’s a chance to step out of the noise and busyness, and step into a living prayer of unlimited possibilities.

To be connected with an ancient lineage of sacred feminine wisdom and live it today. Together we will create a community of presence, where each woman’s divinity is reflected back to her in the eyes of her sisters, the landscape, and the united sacred feminine lineage.

We will laugh, cry, learn, unlearn, and open. We will honor the holy of the Earth and ourselves. And we will anchor a rhythm of devotion and upliftment that can carry you forward for years to come.

If your soul is saying “yes,” we warmly invite you to join us.

There are only a handful of spots, intentionally, because intimacy and authenticity are paramount in this work. If you feel that mix of excitement and nerves, that often means you’re on the brink of something truly meaningful. Trust that.

We are here to answer your questions, to hold your hand through any doubts, and to joyfully welcome you if and when the time is right.

With love,
Karen & Vanessa
Remembrance Pilgrimage Guides

P.S. Have questions or need to talk it through? Don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re an email away and happy to help you discern if this pilgrimage is aligned for you